The Lord said, “be of
good cheer, and I will lead you along”
The purpose of my post today is to share somethings I learned from reading in the scriptures this week. I hope you see that the Lord is constant and his plan is perfect.
True or False: We all experience disappointment
I believe we have all experienced a time when we went to an
event or party and were expecting to be fed, only to find fruits and veggies on
the table. OR, we have all watched our favorite sports team with high
anticipation of a win only to see them plummet to an embarrassing loss. Or
maybe we have all experienced when a friend or family member canceled on a fun
adventure or having a friend or family member tell you they would do something
and they didn’t. All these things are disappointing. They leave us sad, hurt,
and losing trust and confidence.
It’s very easy to get wrapped up in schedules, work,
finances, school, raising children, planning, and so many more things. In each
of these settings it is easy to become disappointed because things don’t always
go the way we want. At certain moments in our lives we may feel like there are
no answers or solutions to our problems? It becomes very overwhelming at times
and can easily lead us to despair.
President Uchtdorf said, “The adversary uses despair to bind
hearts and minds in suffocating darkness. Despair drains from us all that is
vibrant and joyful and leaves behind the empty remnants of what life was meant
to be. Despair kills ambition, advances sickness, pollutes the soul, and
deadens the heart.”
I know that these moments come into our lives. I have
experienced disappointment and I have sunk into despair before. I know when we
reach the point of despair we look to God and say as the prophet Joseph did, “Oh
God, where art thou? And where is the pavilion that covereth they hiding place?
How long shall thy hand be stayed, and thine eye, yea thy pure eye, behold from
the eternal heavens the wrongs of thy people and of thy servants, and thine ear
be penetrated with their cries. O Lord, How long shall they suffer.” (D&C
121-1-3)
It’s hard to go through life when all you see is
disappointment and the Lord’s lack of intervention.
How do we have hope in God when little seems to go our
way?
The Lord said, “And ye cannot bear all things now;
nevertheless, be of good cheer, I will
lead you along. The kingdom is yours and the blessings thereof are yours,
and the riches of eternity are yours.”
There Lord teaches us how we can have hope and how we can
sustain it.
The Lord made us a promise that the kingdom would be ours.
In Hebrews 6:18 & 19 it says, “It was impossible for God to lie, we might
have a strong consolation (or comfort)…to lay hold upon the hope set before us:
Which hope we have as an anchor of the soul.”
What is the hope that the Lord gave us? He said that the
kingdom is ours. That is a promise that
the Lord has made and he cannot break. Robert D Hales said, “Those who wonder
if their current circumstance or condition cuts them off from eternal life
should remember that “no one is predestined to receive less than all that the
Father has for His children.”
We know that life after death is a gift for everyone through
the Savior Jesus Christ. He is the light of our hope. If we were to lose all we
have and all we love we can still have hope knowing that all can be made right
through the atonement of Jesus Christ. We will live again. Our loved ones will
live again and the blessings of eternity, the “riches of eternity” will be much
greater than and riches we may hope for in this life.
Let me give you an example of an eternal hope. My little
brother has been diagnosed with 22q11 deletion syndrome. It is a syndrome that
has autistic like behaviors. He gets hooked on certain things. He gets
overwhelmed easily. He has learning disabilities, social disabilities, and even
some minor physical disabilities. He has many hopes and dreams. He has always
wanted to do what big brother did. In his own way the Lord has blessed him to
fulfill some of them. However as a brother it hurts my heart to watch him
struggle with some of the most simple of things and watch as sadness over comes
him and tears fall down his face. In those moments I wish I could trade my
situation for his, even if it was for a moment so that he could experience some
of life’s great joys. It’s in those moments all I can do is give him a hug or a
pep talk and move on. It’s in those moments that I look to the Savior for help
and strength. It’s in those moments I remember what he did for us. He died and
rose again so that we might all live as perfect resurrected beings. It gives me
hope that one day my brother will be whole and one day he will be perfect.
Because of that I can find peace and I can be
of good cheer.
Hope is the desired
outcome that is in front of us. It is
something that has not happened or that we cannot see but we can live our lives
in a way that we may obtain those desired outcomes. Things may still seem dark and uncertain but
we can always see the light at the end of the tunnel.
If we remember the Lord also said, “be of good cheer, I will
lead you along.” Because God truly loves us, he does not leave us only hoping
for the light and promises at the end of the tunnel. He wants to lead us along
on our journey to our eternal promise.
My wife
mentioned how faith was something that takes effect in our minds and hope is
what takes place in our heart. The Lord said, “Yea, behold, I will tell you
in your mind and in your heart, by the Holy Ghost, which shall come upon
you and which shall dwell in your heart. Now, behold, this is the spirit of
revelation; “
Revelation is
communication between the Lord and us. We need communication with the Lord to
sustain our hope. We communicate with him through prayer. He communicates with
us through the spirit. We invite the spirit into our lives in many ways. Going
to church, reading our scriptures, going to the temple, inviting good media
into our homes, etc. Often times I find myself thinking the Lord is going to
fix my problems or give me the answer simply because I have the faith to do the
things that he asks. Thus our righteous actions are what gives the hope. I have
found having that mentality can lead to more disappointment than hope. To find
hope we must truly understand that the Holy Ghost is what comes with our
righteous actions. The Holy Ghost doesn’t not fix the problems in our lives. It
is the tool that allows us to know where to go and what to do. It is the peace
that answers will come in the Lords time.
Let me give two examples. When I was a kid and I finished
the Book of Mormon for the first time and the answer didn’t just come. I finished the Book of Mormon and did as
Moroni asked to pray and to see if the Book of Mormon was true. After my prayer
I had no overwhelming feeling nor did I have a vision. I got up from my prayer
a little confused. I knew I didn’t have my answer, but I knew if I kept praying
I would. I read and prayed all week. Nothing. A week in the mind of a twelve
year old is forever. It wasn’t until Sunday when I went to my first fireside.
At the fireside my Dad was speaking. He was speaking on his testimony of the
Book of Mormon. As he spoke the spirit filled my heart. It gave me the peace
and the assurance that the Book of Mormon was true. Not because my Dad knew it,
but because it was the spirit making the connection that this was the answer I
had been praying for.
The role of the Holy Ghost in our hope is to allow us to
have peace today as we work toward our answers and solutions for the next day.
Sometimes it takes longer than a week.
When I got home from my mission dating was not my thing. I
only found high expectations of liking someone only to realize that they did
not feel the same. After a few swing and misses I gave up. I gave up for almost
two years. I let my disappointments turn into despair.
I started to wonder if I had done something
wrong. I wondered if there was something wrong with me. I just decided in all I
was not good enough. I just went through for a long time with my head down. I
thought in those moments that if I was doing the right thing then I should
being having hope. What I didn’t realize that was during those two years the
Lord was leading me along. As I read my scriptures, went to church and the
temple I was receiving the glimmers of light. I knew that eternal marriage was
down the road, but the road seemed like it went
forever. The Lord was kind enough to send his spirit and pick me up
along the way. I’m grateful the Lord didn’t just let me settle. I’m glad he
made me work. I’m glad he gave me just enough hope to try.
Because from the moment I met Sheena it was
different. She filled my heart like no one else had. It was so easy for me to
know. The spirit had shown me along the way who I wanted and what I needed. The
Lord gave me the hope I need to make it just far enough so that I could receive
the greatest blessing I now have in my life.
Brothers and Sisters my invitation to you is have hope.
Believe that God has a perfect plan for you. And when the path seems dark don’t
give up. Don’t give into disappointment and despair. Trust in God. Know that
you “cannot bear all things now; nevertheless, be of good cheer, The LORD will lead you along..